Ruffian,
Jerusalyim is right. Check Gal. 6:14. Most Christians see the Cross as a symbol of God's love. As Paul said, "But may it never be that I should boast, except in the cross of our Lord Jesus Christ..." I don't know how much more explicit he could be! The cross is something we should be proud of and not ashamed as the jws seem to be.
Rutht