Friends normally decide for themselves what constitutes violating a friendship.
With JW's that decision is made for them, and even when those conditions are NOT met, the friendship can end 'just to be safe'.
When someone is having a difficult experience, normally their friends help out, not rat them out.
They're a suspicious bunch, them there JW's.
I think most JW's don't have real friends, only a facade of friendship that from day 1 is mutually understood to be with limits and conditions.