When my wife pioneered she got depression (what a surprise) and missed a few meetings.
A COBOE phoned me up asking if a couple of elders could come over to help and encourage her.
I said that simply telling her to just 'do more service, go to more meetings' was not what she needs, and I was going to get her some proper help.
I don't know if the stunned silence at the end of the phone was because I knew what their 'help' would consist of, or if it was because I turned him down.
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