Your post is interesting Blondie
*** w08 11/15 p. 16 par. 17 Help Them Return Without Delay! ***
Why did the brother become inactive? He admits: “I started giving more attention to worldly matters than to spiritual things. Then I stopped studying, engaging in the ministry, and attending meetings. The next thing I knew, I was no longer a part of the Christian congregation
Basis this statement, once you have faded you have in fact left the congregation and should therefore be unanswerable to the elders for anything you subsequently choose to do.
If only the abuse survivors were aware of this, it could have saved them from being kicked out and shunned.