Posts by safe4kids

i know you sometimes miss the barrage of emails you get, so i thought i'd post to invite you to my house-warming party on 30th november 2002.. as you know, this house means the world to me.

and i'm loving it!

safe4kids

Sirona!

Wonderful news on your new house Now you can finally be free, hey?

Wish I could be there to help you toast your new digs; have a glass of bubbly (my favorite) for me, will ya??

Dana

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This may gross you out........

by jack2 in

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as some of you know, i have recently been away to the tropics.

i returned about a month ago.

what i am posting is mainly for information purposes, and it's not meant to make anyone queezy - but it might.

safe4kids

Hey Jack ,

My toenails are now purple

Oooooh, didn't you know that purple toenails are a sign of apostasy??!!

Glad you're gonna be okay; here's hoping for a speedy recovery

Dana

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Shakira Better Than..... Britney??

by Latte in

http://www.shakira.com/ .

i have just bought her new cd washed & dried...it's ace!

the video to objection is really good also.

safe4kids

Latte,

I'm afraid that I'm gonna have to keep Ricky Martin all to myself.......yum...yum

Ok, if you insist

****BTW...instead of introducing me to Shakira and Britney, is it possible to scare up a couple of hot, single neighbor guys??****
I know the feeling re: The possibility of war...I truly hope that it doesn't come to that,

Ummm...war on the cute neighbor guys wasn't exactly what I had in mind

Dana

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Why I don't Have Children

by teenyuck in

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i just read luckylucy's thread and wanted to tell my story.

i also want to ask a question: why are women who have children viewed more favorably than women who don't?

especially if the choice is to not have children.

safe4kids

Teenyuck,

I have thought about this for years. Not being a mother is my choice and I am no less a woman for not having a child. People need to respect the people who know that procreation is not for everyone.

I totally agree with you and I'm sorry to hear that you've been judged so negatively for what is entirely a personal choice. I have children but I've never looked askance at someone who chooses not to. If I had it to do over, who knows if I would make the same decision? But, of course, now that I have them I wouldn't give them up for anything. I also admire you for weighing the advantages and disadvantages and making a reasoned decision on the matter. Thanks for sharing some of your story.

Take care,

Dana

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Why I don't Want children

by LuckyLucy in

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people often ask me why i don't have children...."is it because you don't like them?

" it's quiet the contrary.

i like them alot!

safe4kids

Lucy,

I'm only guessing here, but it sounds as though you've had some pretty traumatic things happen in your life. I agree with Eyegirl that the message your mother conveyed to you was a pretty rotten one for a child to hear from her mother. However, many of us here have been traumatized in many different ways, and what I am trying to say is that it can shape a person's outlook in such a way they are unable to see anything good in life. That's what I am getting from your posts, and it saddens me because it doesn't have to be that way. If you want to talk, let me know, and I'll give you my email addy.

Take care,

Dana

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