Hi Timothy-
Most counselors, psychaiatrists, mental health professionals know that the JWs are a destructive group.
Congratulations on starting down a new career path.
As to your question:
I have a full and rich life which I enjoy. However, I still feel sad for the family which shuns me, because I cant share or celebrate my happiness and success with them. IN fact, I have realized they take a perverse pleasure in tragedy and things going wrong because it confirms their world view. I suspect that if I were to die tragically they would feel very sorry for themselves and then think- we knew this would happen because ourchild is so wicked and and worldly!
That sick twisted mental pattern has helped me to realize I dont want or need people like that in my life, whether or not we are family.
And that is my answer to you.