Posts by perfect1

so you will understand why and with great ease this subject is able to flow off my tongue onto the keyboard, because this time of the year is worse than your christmas time jitters!

anxiety, stress, compulsive babbling nuts are invading our service groups!

perfect1

Aunt Connie, I love your style.

You are my favorite poster here.

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Thinking of having revenge on the jw girl

by spirituk in

hello again, following my story with this girl , and after she blocked me on fb and not answering my phone calls since december , i am now thinking of taking revenge.my feelings of pain are starting to become hate ,and pain always is accompanied by the feeling of revenge to satisfy this bad feeling.i just cant simply forget what shes done to me.

the reasons of my revenge :.

1.she played with my feelings when she knew from the start that she would leave me one day.

perfect1

Let say you do your revenge tactic of sharing your personal messages.

No one will care abou them as much as you do.

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Dub Parents who neglected health issues of their kids

by pratt1 in

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a friend of mine mentioned that he was bitter about the fact that his dub parents neglected his oral hygiene and health because they thought the new system was around the corner and since he would be perfect, his teeth would automatic be healed.. this guy only went to the dentist 2x as a child and really did need brace - we used to call him "bucky" because of his teeth.. as an adult he had the majority of his teeth removed because they were beyond fixing.. do you know of other examples of parents neglecting the health of their kids because of the impending "new system".

perfect1

I have been thinking about this lately in my own life and it makes me so angry.

My parents injured my sister twice- through being intentionally ignorant., one broken bone and one severed digit.

I have an ongoing medical condition which never received proper care and resulted in me being unconscious and hospitalized more than once.

I had a broken nose which they did not bother to take me to the doctor for.

They also moved us to a completely different climate and did not provide proper shoes or clothing.

Because of this my sister has deformed feet.

I learned never to ask for anything, the one time my mother did offer to buy me something new, around the time I was 16, I refused. By that time I was earning some of my own money but I couldnt pay for everything.

I hate my parents. They are complete JW idiots who never gave a fuck about their own kids. I cared more about my sisters welfare than they ever did.

Now they are getting old and developing a poor me attitude. I intend to take as good of care of them in their old age as they did of me.

Medicine. Too expensive, you dont need that. Doctor, no you dont need that either. Oh it hurts. Go to your room to cry.

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Julia's Inquisition - Two elders, the full version! I want you all to see this.

by Julia Orwell in

jw
friends

sorry it's gonna be long winded.

i've done my best to reconstruct from memory.

my husband was next to me the whole time.

perfect1

Since people have all responded to your story so positively, let me add:

if I were you I would be more protective of myself and stop showing vulnerability.

You have basically admitted you dont want to be df-ed for family reasons.

Everything they ask you is an attempt to determine- IN or OUT. BLACK or WHITE. You may feel you avoided completely incriminating yourself. But you havent. Eventually they must move you into one category or another.

Its time for you to get yourself out completely.

Lucky for you your family is athiest so those relationships are not in the toilet.

You dont owe them any explanation.

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Even if its not the truth its still the best way of life!

by mtsgrad in

jw
friends

complete the following:.

even if its not the truth...... .

.

perfect1

bump

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Reaching Loved Ones Stuck in a Cult: Reciprocal Letter Writing

by 00DAD in

i've been toying with an idea that i think just might have some legs.

so here i am trotting it out for all of you to consider and comment upon.

for many of us, we are extremely frustrated by the fact that we have no way to communicate with our loved ones still stuck in the organization.

perfect1

00D, I think this is a great idea.

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Are homosexuals born that way? The March 15 Watchtower seems to say so.

by matt2414 in

15 one brother who was raised in a christian household wrote that for as long as he could remember, he struggled with homosexual tendencies.

he said: i always felt awkward.

it seemed that i didnt fit in anywhere.

perfect1

SEXUALITY IS A SPECTRUM PEOPLE.

Bella, your comment reminds me of this delightful song, do you know it

When you call my name

Its like a little prayer

Im down on my knees

I wanna take you there

In the midnight hour

I can feel your power

Just like a prayer

You know Ill take you there

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Have you ever shunned someone and then later regretted it?

by 00DAD in

lately, i've been reading a number of thread lately that deal with this topic.

one particularly poignant experience came from simon.

in simon's story he shares: .

perfect1

Long Hair Gal,

No kidding! All shunning does is show what small minded, deluded poison this religion is. Relationships are based on trust, and once that trust has been broken by shunning, its hard to get back. In the real world, friendships go through phases and some fade naturally as personalities and interests fade. In JW land- people are always getting locked into unrealisitc notions of permanence about who someone is and has been.

LIFE IS SHORT, and for those of us who have experienced shunning, you might not want to waste your time or heart with people who dropped you once and could do it again- all for a stupid cult. Some people and bonds are resillient, other relationships are severed by shunning. In my experience, I have been very suprised by the people who still talk to me and those who dont. Its not who I expected.