The same as ToesUp and Tijkmo
We helped the brothers in our congregation. My husband was the most giving person when he was in and out of the truth. When he was studying he gave all his savings to a brother in need (it was only hundreds but still, it was ALL his savings!) He thought that was what Christians were supposed to do.
He worked for brothers for free, gave them lifts to hospital appointments, gifts, gas money etc.
But when he got sick and had to give up work and we were living on soup, did anyone help us? NOPE.
All we got was 'I'll pray for you'
A sister 250 miles away heard of our troubles and gave us money to fill up our larder. That was so kind of her.
But she was the only one. They don't give out help and the ones that do give get taken advantage of.
The people we had supported and helped through their bad times were nowhere to be seen when we were desperate for help ourselves.