A recently bereaved sister approaches you in tears and tells you she just wants to die. WHAT DO YOU DO?
Offer some personal one-on-one "counseling", and then tell her to go bake some cookies? Okay, I am just trying to inject some twisted humor.
Try being a JW male, not pioneering, not "reaching out", not "being used" because you "don't qualify", then you will know what depression is. You will feel the weight of EVERYONE wondering what is "wrong" with you, and what "secret sin" prevents "God" from viewing you as worthy.
Isn't that the 100% truth! I am hearing that rubbish on a weekly basis. Sorry a--holes!