Nobody has chased me away or offend me or hurt my feelings. I was just waiting to see what people had to say. ... but I think a few have mixed up my question or statement with that of the lady asking if you get disfellowshiped for dating an unbeliever. You actually do not get disfellowshiped and do not get disfellowshiped for marrying an unbeliever. However it is not recommended. And for the record, I would ver date nor marry anyone outside of the organization. Been there done that and that’s why I’m divorced at 44. I caught my husband having sex with a 16 yr old girl.
And furthermore, trying to insult me on my large size says more about you than about me.
Thank you all, but I think this is the wrong forum for me