In fairness, the elders were kind and supportive.
They were supportive of you having sex before marriage? That’s a surprise as JWs think that’s wrong.
I support anyone having the freedom to choose to have sex consensually with other adults.
But I seriously doubt those elders were truly supportive of your choice.
I think if you objectively look back on that, you’ll see that they were not supportive and were only gaslighting you so they could exert control over your personal decisions.