I have
never been an elder and I think you cannot help others to wake up (especially
without risking a lot in your position), but you could delay their baptism so
that to have at least the opportunity to be awaken at that age.
As a PIMO
parent, with a PIMI mate, this is what I biblically think, and it is nothing
that you could label as "apostate" and as a PIMO elder you could
do something similar as well.
My child
(and children in general) should get baptized only:
1) When it
he will be 30 years old (or, at least 18). Jesus set the example in prayers
etc., so he set the example also for baptism: not before he was 30. He was
perfect, he was the God's son, and he knew the salvation of all humankind
depended on him, so he was the best example of a person who should have been
baptized as soon as possible with a sense of urgency and he did not do before
he was 30.
In the NT
accounts you can always read about men and women getting baptized, but never
boys, girls, or kids...
You could
say that a 11, 12, 13, 14, 15, 16... years old person is a man or a woman, but
when you are at that age you are not mature enough to choose a mate for all
your life: how could you be mature enough to choose the real God and His
religion forever?
They could
say: but the end is very close! Yes, but if it should come tomorrow, it would
still be plenty of 10, 9, 8, 7, 6, 5, 4, 3, 2, 1... years old JW's children not
baptized: why not baptizing them as well, then?
2) After
reading the entire Bible at least once. If studying one or two books that teaches you
a few hundred of verses without context is sufficient to get baptized, why did
God write thousands of verses in the Bible? Just for having something to read
as a hobby only after the baptism?
3) After
knowing that secrets books exist containing hidden information regarding the
way you will be judged. If having secret/hidden books/information is God's
will, why not telling this to people before their baptism instead of
discovering it only afterwards? Is there anything to hide?
4) After
knowing that with the baptism (in my Country) you become an adherent member of
the local WT Society according to its Statute. Why discovering that casually
only after the baptism on a Kingdom Ministry? Why not telling this to people
before? Is there anything to hide?
These are all things I regret for not having known and/or done before my baptism!