I had an interesting conversation with somebody who faded from the group that was faced with requests from active ones to "please come back, we miss you".
First point, this person hasn't moved, and is still available to these Witnesses. Simply a phone call away. Access is not the problem.
Since none of these people have reached out personally, and because JWs have no group sponsored social functions, we know they do not miss genuine friendship or social activity in any conventional sense.
So what exactly did these people miss?
They missed the person actively participating in group sponsored function. The group does not worship using ritual, lots of song, or other more worship/praise oriented activities. Instead, they sit through hours of group teaching sessions.
Now bring it all together. What these folks really were saying is that "we miss you sitting through the teaching sessions with us". And also "We missed you publicly demonstrating your dedication to the group". Just think of the words JWs use so often:
- Dedication
- Imitate
- Be Like
The group experience is to emulate whatever is "current" with the organization. Part of the groups experience is to actually anticipate what new changes there will be that people need to emulate, or "imitate".