It's not a competition, Joel, to see which way is better. Or else every time a JW showed kindness it would be proof they have the right religion. In fact, there are many religious and scientific reasons why their religion is wrong, and their behavior is secondary to that.
Besides, in addition to the fighting, bickering, and character assassination here, there are heartwarming examples of true love and compassion. Try focusing on those for a while. You were unfairly attacked, it is true, but consider the source.