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  There seems to be many jw's marrying outside of org recently.

  by atomant in

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  l was wondering if others have noticed this or is just my imagination?my sister whom has always been a fine example of a dub just got married to an outsider was a shock to everyone as no one knew she was dating an outsider.she seems happy.the elders are to shit scared of her to approach her about the matter.

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  NeverKnew

  Does there seem to be more JW females taking on non JW spouses or is it going both ways?

  Men having more spiritual glamour (I.e. Privileges) to lose may play heavily on their choices.
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  There seems to be many jw's marrying outside of org recently.

  by atomant in

  1. watchtower
  2. beliefs

  l was wondering if others have noticed this or is just my imagination?my sister whom has always been a fine example of a dub just got married to an outsider was a shock to everyone as no one knew she was dating an outsider.she seems happy.the elders are to shit scared of her to approach her about the matter.

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  NeverKnew

  Nonjwspouse I completely and wholeheartedly agree with you. The JW party MUST lie to to the nonJW from day 1. Their real perception that eventually comes out is not one of mutual respect for the religious (or non religious) beliefs from which you've come. Once it comes out, the condescending arrogance that you're faced with is unreal.

  Many books cover the dual personality of a cult member. At the point of realization that there really are two distinct personalities, a non JW is gobsmacked. I know for me, there was something very wrong when we talked about religion. The logic applied to certain concepts just didn't fit the model of the man I had come to love.

  In defense of them, how does one know that they are under mind control... When they are under mind control?

  For that reason, I have to suspend condemnation when off-putting things are said. When off-putting things are done they get called on it big time.
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  I need your feedback re: anti-shunning campaign

  by dubstepped in

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  alright, so i posted earlier this week about my desire to put together some sort of campaign to target the friends and family that shun us before the regional convention part on shunning.

  my goal is to produce a postcard that can be mailed out to those that shun us to contrast shunning and love before it is cemented in their minds this summer.

  i want to make them think twice.

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  NeverKnew

  So is it your goal to give these postcards to people with disfellowshipped or disassociated family members or are you giving this to everybody involved in that which I call the shunning ministry?
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  This week's resurrection video, will it backfire on the wt?

  by prologos in

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  the resurrection is supposed to be a joyous occasion?, if it ever happened!

  --well, this week's showing at the hall was the opposite, it was about death with violins playing in the background.

  a recently bereaved member, , full of tears, (like many others) could not contain herself.

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  NeverKnew

  Non JW here. Not my first go around at the mid week meeting but my first seeing a video in the middle of a service.

  I was confused by the video. I didn't get the religious component. After looking at a few people wipe their eyes, I realized there was some emotional manipulation going on. It was just a weird experience.

  I'm the biggest crybaby watching movies but while others must have felt differently, I felt completely disconnected from the characters for some reason.
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  When your oldest friend is a JW and they die

  by Terry in

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  in my book, i wept by the rivers of babylon, i described the process of having a friend, johnny santa cruz, use our friendship as a platform for converting me to a jehovah's witness.. that friendship cost me decades of my life in bondage to a cult.. the friendship was real and johnny and i bonded for life.

  but, the religion eventually turned him into a stone silence toward me--his oldest friend.

  now he is dead and the imaginary reunion and meeting of the minds is no longer a possibility.. this makes his passing a double tragedy.. his memories were my memories.

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  NeverKnew

  I don't get the permission part.

  It might be that I've never been a JW.

  If the funeral hasn't happened yet I say stop acting as an ex-JW and operate as a non JW and show the hell up out of respect for HIM.
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  Chapter One of my New Novel "New Boy"

  by new boy in

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  the pledge is over and all the children sit back down at their desks.

  many kids look at keith as he walks back into the classroom.

  then your religion is weird.” .

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  NeverKnew

  I say go for it New Boy!

  It seems like many JWs I know would relate so far.

  Hopefully the intended audience is JWs AND non-JWs. I'm trying to get these types of books under the noses of non-jws these days.
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  Berkshire Circuit (UK)

  by Dont_Believe_The_Truth in

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  i'm hearing rumours of huge changes within the berkshire circuit here in the uk .

  congregations being dispanded and kingdom halls closing down and being sold off.... official announcements within the next month apparently .

  does anyone else have anymore info?.

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  NeverKnew

  Listless, when did that happen?
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  Coming to terms with the Watchtower experience

  by Lee Elder in

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  it is a challenge coming to terms with your experience as a jehovah's witness.

  if you were born and raised as a jw, and your parents were true believers, the impact on your life is profound, lasting, and largely negative.

  in some cases quite abusive emotionally, spiritually, financially, educationally and yes, even sexually.. i recently watched "trumbo", and was quite moved by dalton trumbo's speech to the screen writers guild in 1970. here is an excerpt that i think is quite relevant to this topic:.

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  NeverKnew

  I know of a few families where one generation of dysfunction followed another. At the root of it all was the WTS.
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  Disturbance during Memorial 2016.

  by Ben131895 in

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  two documented disturbances during memorial 2016. type 'memorial 2016' on youtube.

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  NeverKnew

  I dunno.

  I would think a more effective campaign so to speak would be to teach non-JWs in a non-emotional way what this group is really about and then let householders start anti-witnessing.

  My brother has the ARC Washington Post article at his door and is waiting for the next Witness to come to his door so he can ask them to explain the WTS's position on it.

  Seems to me that if you equip enough households with information like this, the preaching work may end.
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  Why all the hate...

  by Dystopia in

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  ...toward jehovah's witnesses?

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  NeverKnew

  Wow, look at all the comments on MY thread!
  

  So you made another account? Now you're named after a lady's sanitary napkin... This is great.

  Especially, not the kind of persons I want to be friends with.
  

  So... how many more accounts will you create to be around people you don't want to be friends with?

  the world at large is more concerned with organizations that pose a lethal threat, like ISIS.
  

  Well, this site is more concerned with the organization that has either threatened to wreck or has successfully wrecked people's emotional lives by using their own families as weapons.

  If that's what you respect, go and continue to be a part of the emotional jihad they're inflicting on others that are hurting. I'm sure your Jehovah respects you as much as Allah respects the suicide bombers.