I was raised in an evangelical christian home before Mom became a JW so I was exposed to the pictures of mangled 24 week fetuses and the testimony of women saying it is the worst decision they have ever made. So on and so forth. I will admit I do kind of kind of still lean that way. Especially with the need to enforce some kind of gestational limit.
I have also seen the third world where there is a church on every corner and Children everywhere savaging rubbish bins for something to eat. Also my sons best friend is a foster child and it is just horrible the kind of crap these kids have to endure. Getting moved from birth parents, to birth grandparents to foster family back and to birth parents. Mom starts using drugs again and the cycle repeats itself.
I have also been a male partner in a first trimester miscarriage and I have been in that weird area where you don't know exactly what you are suppose to feel.
It is not an an easy situation anyway you look at it but the idea that a 14 year old girls or a women in college that makes a drunken mistake need to be held accountable, seriously get fucked.