Happy Dad you may want to change that pseudonym 🤣.
I am a member of the CofE and l can confirm that rigorous precautions have been put in place to help prevent this kind of thing happening.
I am a 66yr old female member of my specific church's PCC ( parochial church council) . This is the group who make decisions about stuff that goes on and is responsible for upkeep of the building.
I have to be DBS ( disclosure and barring service ) checked. This only because l am.on the PCC . I have no contact directly with children or vulnerable adults . Any other church member who , in whatever role , does come into contact with those groups has to be DBS checked as well .
Each church has a safeguarding officer who is to be informed about any suspicion of wrong doing so that records can be kept and appropriate people informed .
Abuse of any kind , including spousal abuse , is taken very seriously.
Jan