What's the point in jw discussion if we are all free agents and can freely choose to make our own decisions.
It's all about information - it's free and available, because people share their stories on sites like this.
There are no excuses now for not knowing. Maybe 50+ years ago, but not anymore ... and even then, people chose to believe something to the point of risking their children's lives without really researching or listening to any dissenting opinion?