I self identify as someone you each owe one "meeeelion dollahs" to. Please don't mis-lender me.
If it was simply "use this pronoun" it wouldn't be so bad, but we know it doesn't stop there - that's just the "gateway drug" to crazy land, where people want to go into ladies washrooms and ladies prisons (rapes happen in both) and elbow women out of sports.
Sorry, I like women. I'm not playing that game. Mental illness should be treated, not rewarded. Crimes should be punished, not excused.
But it doesn't even stop there. As it's continued, it clearly has increasingly strong ties to pedophilia. Again, I like kids, I don't think hey should be sexualized or subjected to gross indecent behavior as happens at the mis-named "pride" parades (at this point, it should be "shame"). It seems like they've even elbowed out gay people and will undermine all the acceptance they have built up over the last 5 decades.
So no, I'm not going to use someone's incorrect pronouns unless they actually look and act like a lady. I use she / her for women and girls. Not morally debauched men who threaten and abuse people.
Transphobia is up there with Islamophobia, both extreme weaponized outrage for political purposes against justified concerns. Maybe we could organize to put both groups together in some desert and let them fight it out? I see a hit reality TV show ... Drags vs Jihads? Trans vs Imams?
Am I cancelled yet? LOL