Some people are able to block any unpleasantness (That they did) from their minds. I mean totally. I have seen it done. The funny part is they all had the same type personality. Self absorbed.
Even when confronted be a few people they still deny. And they can do this and convince you they are telling the truth! Especially about abuse.
But I have my own views on cutting our relatives out of our lives..I don't agree with throwing people away, especially our close relatives. So one said relationships would always be easy. I love my parents no matter what and my childhood wasn't easy. (Not JW) I could be on the pity train but what good would it do?
I loved my parents to the end and understood that they had their own problems and dealt with them the best they could. As far as talkng on the phone, I always dreaded that Sunday call from my Mom..just idle chit chat but still didn't like it.
Now I miss those calls. Every Sunday I expect the phone to ring and she would be on the line.
My parents didn't beat me (my brother remembers otherwise) but there are all kinds of abuse. It wasn't pleasant. I had a lot of problems in my life because of it. But I still loved my parents and respected them as such. I didn't expect perfection from them and wouldn't dream of just throwing them away because they got on my nerves..
JMO Snoozy