Aw Claire..it must be breaking your heart to see Ian going through so much. You get such a helpless feeling when you can't do anything to make them more comfortable don't you?. I would have done anything to help my hubby when he was so sick..and I could do nothing..I felt so helpless.
I knew he wasn't a complainer and my heart hurt so bad for him.
Please tell Ian we are all thinking of him and wish him the best! My heart also goes out to you. You must be exhausted with all the worrying .
We love you both so much and wish we could be there with you, but know we are with you in spirit.
Big hugs and I will even say a prayer for you two. Something I have started to do again in the last year.
Snoozy..