hi Jaina,
I'd love to say more ,but it has nothing to do with your serious question. Only about your relationship with a JW.
So, please go here and read and pay attention to what AlanF said. This serious subject seems to be somewhat of a secret unless you call the right people in the JW organization. So keep in mind what he said and find and keep the right phone numbers of the people who can give you the life saving advice your might someday need. Keep it by your phone as you would the police and fire department. And give you JW mate the number once you dig and find it. Seems like this subject is not priority enough for the organizational higher-ups to make this information repetative study articles such as they do with the subject of pioneering for the Watchtower INC printing business.
Here is the link:
http://www.jehovahs-witness.com/forum/thread.aspx?id=45137&site=3
peace,
somebody