Here is one option of a belief system that suits me. This is a JWLITE version of Pascal’s wager.
Stay physically in the JWs to the extent of going to meetings and assembly’s/conventions when it suits, maybe give answers/items occasionally but not putting too much effort into them. Half the time on zoom in your slippers and PJs with a nice cuppa.
Going in ministry groups mainly zoom only for the social aspect, really it’s just a social meet up and good old gossip never really written letters and everyone knows this. Only very occasionally in person ministry groups at the hall or someone’s home, but never going on door to door work. Just say you are going to do ‘calls’ or street/park witnessing but never actually do any of that. Then meet up for coffee breaks. Make the most of all gatherings and be very zealous at visiting members of the congregation.
This is the best part being in a close knit community. Really great folks who you can trust to always be there for you in times of need. Everyone in JWs are so kind and generous and always have the best gatherings and hospitality.
Make it look like you are at the heart of the congregation and be very involved with everyone as this is the only good part of staying physically in.
Mentally live as pascals wager but a JWLITE version according to the latest AGM. Live how you want as it really doesn’t matter according to the latest AGM. If the JWs turn out to be right you can repent last min.
The advantage to this approach is the placebo affect compared to being an atheist. With at least a tiny amount of faith Jesus said the size of a mustard seed you could move a mountain.
So keeping one foot in and one foot out the get the best of both worlds.
When you analyse someone with faith in God particularly the JWs they do have this placebo affect where they don’t worry so much and can cope with illness even short life expectancy diagnosis.
Yes I can have this placebo affect even though it may not be true I can hope that it is.