Thanks fro all the replies.
I am very happy to say that I now have more likes than dislikes about myself.
I like the fact that I am strongwilled and no longer let most people treat me like a doormat and even though I have lost "friends" like that I have learned that they really wern't my friends to want such control over me. I like the fact that I am kind, honest and trustworthy. All my true friends know that they can count on me to do anything within my power to help them out.
I dislike the fact that I can never make up my mind about certain things. I also dislike it that certain people still know how to manipulate me to their advantage.
Moe- cause patience is a virtue