Posts by SpiderMonkey

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Prayer does it work for you?

by haujobbz in

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hello everyone more questions as usual, do you think praying ever helped you or was it just like talking to the air, its funny because when i was i jw i did pray a lot and convinced myself it worked,but now i think about it, did it help me or was it what i wanted to believe.i mean i always seemed to say to myself b4 yeh praying really helps me in my life and when things went right 4 me like maybe being regular as a preacher,at meetings,and doing whats was right, i felt my prayers were answered but i think these things happened because i wanted them to be that way not because of praying you know like the placebo effect.you see just because you pray 4 something and coincidently it happens does it mean your prayers worked.

SpiderMonkey

Dave L, I really enjoyed your post. Particularly along the lines of not putting limits on the actions of spirit.

My prayers tend to be very simple & straightforward; I rarely pray "for" anything... I think the greatest benefit comes from attention to those things I feel thankful for; I think the energy of my attention strengthens those "good things" and keeps me from strengthening a condition of "lack" of those things I don't have. Basically, I close my eyes and mentally say "thank you," and visualize specific things or areas of my life that I am truly grateful for... This "works" for me, even if only by giving me greater peace of mind. I'm not saying it's wrong or ineffective to ask for help; I just find that the benefit to my mind & spirit is greatest when I focus on what I do have, rather than what I don't.

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'Nice' news article from Fl

by Max Divergent in

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here's a nice sickly sweet article from fl about the tireless efforts of the local neighbourhood witnessess working for your salvation despite terrible persecution... i really liked the bit where a lady who takes in stray cats and dogs also invited the jw's in!.

http://www.sptimes.com/2002/07/11/floridian/the_other_side_of_the.shtml

SpiderMonkey

Right on the money, Matty & Scootergirl...

"Good morning, how are you?" Mrs. Casper starts in, her face a happy smile. "I know you weren't expecting anyone. We just thought we'd brighten your day a little bit. . . ."
"Ma'am I just got home from work. I'm busy," says the woman's dry voice from the other side of the screen.
"Okay, can I just leave you a tra. . . ."
The door shuts soundly.
"I don't view that as rejection," Mrs. Casper says, her brown pumps clicking against the asphalt as she walks away. "We're calling unexpectedly." The woman probably was very tired, she figures.

Um, HELLO?!? Not a rejection? At least I never *tried* to be that annoying when I "preached"... Yeah, sounds like a great place to call again

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Its about freakin time..............

by SpiceItUp in

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that mrmoe made emporer!!!!!!!!!

and now for the celebrations..... .

SpiderMonkey

LOL, got to get me a tennis racket...

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How Pure Are You?

by MrMoe in

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omg i am like super wicked....

http://test.thespark.com/puritytest/.

you are 29% pure!

SpiderMonkey

mmmmm... COUSIN... lol

<--- southern boy

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Just Another IQ Quiz

by DakotaRed in

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okay, we have had plenty of iq quizzes, but no one has used this one.

what is so great about it is no scoring.

read the question, then try to answer---then check your answer by scrolling down!!

SpiderMonkey

hmmmmmm... I also got "all" but the green house question... but isn't "greenhouse" one word? Kind of misleading, methinks

Moe, the first line of #6 says "you are driving a bus"... therefore the name of the bus driver is your own...

LOL, probly the reason I "got" 5 of them right is that I've heard some of them b4... Got most of them wrong the first time around [:|]

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How Pure Are You?

by MrMoe in

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omg i am like super wicked....

http://test.thespark.com/puritytest/.

you are 29% pure!

SpiderMonkey

I, like 13th apostate, am 54% pure... only 31% are less pure than me... not sure whether to feel good or bad about this [:?]

The sex test was HARSH:

The info on your 5 future sex partner(s):

5 of them will be female

0 of them will be male0 of them!

I wouldn't mind dying during sex (hehe) but LOVE 0 OF THEM!!! thanks a lot

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Email from a Witness about the site

by Simon in

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would just like to say that i have spent hours reading material on this web site.

just would like to also say that i am still one of jehovah's witnesses.

if jehovah's witnesses are truly distructive and to familys as well then i would like to know please, how on earth is the association of brothers going to stay together, if it is really destructive?

SpiderMonkey

One chap i know who knows me from being a child sais that the one thing he liked about me, is that i dont have a holier that thou attitude, and altough i have a religious belief system, that i have retained my own personality, as before. I have not been transformed into some shady grinning self righteous sneak.

I myself work with a JW who is a lot like this... He doesn't know I am XJW, and I'm trying to keep it that way (actually, the number of people at work that I tell about my past is very limited, as I've had many very annoying experiences w/ Christian co-workers telling me "you've never been a Christian then! you need to open your heart to Jesus!" ...I just don't see it this way. I don't go out of my way to slam Christianity, even though I have some huge problems with it; I've always just wanted to be shown the same respect)... Anyway, my point is this: This JW at work retains a friendly personality, doesn't (to my knowledge) try to convert anyone in the workplace, and is seen by everyone as a hard worker, a team player, a comrade. I have nothing but respect for him, but I will say this: I have heard him loudly laughing at another Christian (non-JW), saying "I've never read THAT in the Bible!!! HAHAHA!!! Josh, If you can show me that in the Bible, I'll believe it!!! HAHAHAHAHA!!!" And this to another VERY hard-working person, a sincere, dedicated Christian, a young man who is very conscientious and loved by all. I later overheard Josh talking to another hardcore Christian about it; it seemed like he was heartbroken. Not exactly "good fruit" in my opinion. Also, I hear this JW bringing up current news events & commenting on how horrible they are, making comments like "Noone seems to value life anymore," seeming to be trying to plant his dirty little "seeds." You can retain your own peronality in the JW belief system, but you're STILL expected to internalize the whole creepy belief system.

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N'AWLINS! Bigboi please respond

by SpiderMonkey in

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ok i just got through some problems that my computer had with its human & i'm back .

http://www.jehovahs-witness.com/forum/thread.asp?id=18860&site=3.

i sure do wish i'd been on this site around january!!!

SpiderMonkey

P.S. Denny, do you do housework? LOL, then sure you can stay w/ me

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N'AWLINS! Bigboi please respond

by SpiderMonkey in

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ok i just got through some problems that my computer had with its human & i'm back .

http://www.jehovahs-witness.com/forum/thread.asp?id=18860&site=3.

i sure do wish i'd been on this site around january!!!

SpiderMonkey

hey; I've been mostly out for a few days getting my head straight. Jeff Schwehm! I tried writing you awhile back; don't know if you saw my post back then... I was in the E. Metairie congregation, too, and I was ALSO at the DeKalb congregation in NYC (around late 89 - early 93)... If I remember right, you said that you were at DeKalb for awhile. I was wondering if we might know each other, though I can't place your name.

Dede & Denny: It is a tossup right now whether I can make the Dallas apostofest. I can't go wednesday b/c of work, and now the weekend is looking bad; the day after my dog died, I found out my van has a radiator leak. I can drive it to & from work & such, but a long drive seems too risky... Can't really afford to get it fixed right now, or get a rental car But we'll see... If I can get there, I will.

love, Mike

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RIP Tequila :(

by SpiderMonkey in

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i don't why i'm making a post of this, just because i guess... my dog died this morning, run over by a car... she saw a bunch of kids on the other side of a busy street, slipped out of the collar and ran for it... she didn't listen to me & she was dead before i even got to her :(.

in loving memory of tequila "mockingbird" casey, c. 1994-2002, the most beautiful, loving dog ever...

SpiderMonkey

Thank you all so much for your support... To answer someone's question, I don't know what breed she was; I got her from the pound as a puppy. I've heard from people who knew about dogs that she looked maybe terrier/pekinese mix, but I'm not sure. A little dog, about 20 poungd... Super friendly, happy, well-behaved...

Again, I appreciate the support, & especially the Rainbow Bridge bit... I cried when I read that, I know we'll be together again somehow, I just hope I'm able to know her & remember when it happens in another life. I wish I knew who she was before, because all I know is that she was my best friend for 8 years :(