Hi TruJW, there's no glory in helping one's family in the JW Religion! If I decided to stop working and allow my wife to work full-time so I could pioneer, do all the elder "busy stuff", the Congregation would be rock and rolling with bliss! As my wife struggles to make a livings, I am out burning up her money driving the pioneers around the city, taking other families kids out in Service (not mine) and showing attention and helping other elder's mothers do some plumbing, roofing, home repair, or paper-work.
Taking care of your family meaning nothing, all that matters is enabling the "King Pins of Bethel"!
When my baby brother stopped attending meetings in 1988, I moved away and not one elder, servant or publisher came to ask why a fifthteen year old kid who never missed meetings stopped attending meetings. Five years later after his third year in College, with no respect for the Watchtower Organization some Goobers decided to stop by and ask "Hey, noticed your not making meeting much!" he say's "It only took you five years to notice my departure, the odd thing was I had nothing against the Organzation when I stopped going, I just felt weak and nobody was there." Part of this could be my fault, I was seventeen and had my own life working and going to college, chasing women.
JWs Children and Parents who follow the rules of the Watchtower turn against each other in a heart-beat, for decades for preceived wrongs either fictious or real. Your mother might feel be taking out her anger on you with your child?
JW's practice Corban, following the rules of Men, not Jesus Christ! We know for a fact now, they hid pedophiles from the Congregation, and joined the Wild Beast's Organization. Cults act very strange to their neighbors, their family (especially) trying to turn each member against each other! Cults desire to avoid anyone they preceive as weak, or not performing at two hundred percent of expectations. No amount of ass kissing will be enough or long enough to force these whack jobs to act human to you! Sorry, but is been played out so many times in various congregations.