***** You are still welcomed to my home in Hawaii. Just one rule; NO COMPUTER TIME FOR YOU! You need to just get away from it all for a while IMO.
Vinny....I am going to reply to this.....and end this once and for all. I have spent enough time going over this in my head and I am not going to allow THIS to eat me up with hurt any more.
You had said you were not going to post on different boards any more and said, among other things, that it was taking up too much of your time, etc, etc and I had written back something along the line that I agreed, and that it WAS addicting (being on the different boards) and it COULD be obsessive if we let it, etc. This was MONTHS ago....(I recall I owed you an email with good news and THAT was about my sister's upcoming visit the first week of August...so I know it had to be said before that)
THEN KABAM I see your post about me referring TO that email! I almost could not believe you had done that! I am the type that when someone writes me something privately---it would NEVER occur to me to blab their thoughts and feelings on an open forum---but then---that's just ME. It wasn't that I said anything I was embarrassed at SAYING....it was a matter of DECENCY and fair play.
When I get HURT by the deliberate actions of someone else....I no longer trust them. I have no desire to spend time with you or to exchange emails. I am not bound to act on what YOU have decided to do or NOT do with respect to the WTS. YOUR choice was not MY choice.
So, I would have to decline ANY invitation to your home.... in that whatever might be said in confidence....could very well be introduced as fodder for discussion and a personal evaluation of my "motives" somewhere in the future. I don't like that feeling, that someone I TRUSTED and I had said something in passing to, would turn around and bite me in the backside with it.
It was kind of crummy of you to do that. A lesson learned on my part.
I wish the best for you and your family....but I have lost respect for you as a friend.
Annie