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  Do you have school aged children still going to meetings?

  by KateWild in

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  i have stopped going but my son goes with his dad once a week.

  my son got asked by his dad............... "do you want to be a publisher again?".

  my son replies.

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  It must be horrible for you to watch them suffer this way though.

  It sure is! I don't think my eldest would ever consider baptism thankfully, but it is very confusing for them all the same.
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  Do you have school aged children still going to meetings?

  by KateWild in

  1. watchtower
  2. beliefs

  i have stopped going but my son goes with his dad once a week.

  my son got asked by his dad............... "do you want to be a publisher again?".

  my son replies.

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  lildev, sorry to hear of her reaction. I faded for over 2 years so my children could see I'm not the bad person the JWs would make me out to be.
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  Do you have school aged children still going to meetings?

  by KateWild in

  1. watchtower
  2. beliefs

  i have stopped going but my son goes with his dad once a week.

  my son got asked by his dad............... "do you want to be a publisher again?".

  my son replies.

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  I have 2, one pre teen, another mid teen. The pre teen does not go anymore, her mother says it is because I am blackmailing her by having a good time with her! My daughter says the meetings are boring. The mid teen is sadly confused and feels sorry for her mother, she goes but pays little attention to what is going on, I ask her every now and then and she shrugs her shoulders.

  I do not agree to either going door to door, the older one will only go on 'calls' with her mother.

  An odd thing happened recently. I have DA'd myself recently, and the child of an elder recently shunned my daughters! Saves me from having to highlight how inhumane they are.
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  How did you get over.......

  by DS211 in

  1. jw
  2. friends

  your cognitive dissonance, particularly that with living out in the"world"?

  and any with children, how did you get over the fear of your kids interacting with other kids, bad habits, and the other fears with leaving the borg?

  just curious as i too have many moments of "oh god how will my kids grow up in this world?

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  Have a look at the kids yours go to school with, and who they choose to play with at school. Are they bad? I prefer mine being with children that are not being manipulated into being fearful of armageddon, fearful of having happy times at birthdays and christmas etc.

  It is sad but take the child set up as a good example by JWs and strip away the indoctrination, what do you have left? A kid that cannot think for themselves in my opinion.
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  Do you have something to prove?

  by freeflyingfaerie in

  1. jw
  2. friends

  sometimes i have to recheck my motives for doing things.. sometimes i do things for the pure joy of it...dance, yoga, nature walk, listen to music, read something interesting, etc.

  but, sometimes when i am engaged in something, like college studies(which i do for the end result and also enrichment), i get flashes of my past that creep in that remind me of a negative message, and it makes me wonder if one of my motives is to also prove something about my self.

  at times i recall my ex-husband calling me 'stupid' or 'dumb'.

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  Faerie, I understand what you mean, don't worry. It sounds like you are a strong well rounded person and are proving that. Remember you have survived, you're a survivor and I hope one day everything slots into place for you.
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  New here, just wanted to say "Hello"

  by Goldiver in

  1. jw
  2. experiences

  hello all, it is nice to have a forum for former jw's and see i wasn't the only one out there having serious doubts.

  my parents got into it when i was about 4 years old.

  my family was part of the granville ny congregation.. my dad in time became an elder.

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  Welcome, glad you found a way out and have found happiness.
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  Have you used dropbox? Have you had any problems?

  by ILoveTTATT in

  1. jw
  2. friends

  there is a certain user to whom i suggested using dropbox, and the user said he had problems with it, that his computer ended up full of game advertisements.. please, to those who have used dropbox before, can you give your honest evaluation of dropbox?.

  i am trying to convince this user that i did not suggest to him something that was bad, but actually good... that it helps to share huge files, no matter what their size.. .

  please tell this user... i don't want to lose this user's trust.. .

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  I use it all the time and have done for a few years without any problems.
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  hello from a galaxies far away

  by galaxie in

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  happy@last

  ^^^ perhaps whisky would have been better lol
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  hello from a galaxies far away

  by galaxie in

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  happy@last

  Welcome again, I have had a few fords, one tried to die and so I moved it on, I wonder if the UK ones are not built to last. Anyhow its good to have you here, hope to hear more in time.
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  The New Diary of Winston Smith

  by WinstonSmith in

  1. jw
  2. experiences

  we had to go off grid for a time, time and half a time as we thought we had been outed.

  fortunately it was a false alarm, but it was a stressful time.

  i asked for my original diary thread to be deleted in case there could be anything on there to identlfy mrs smith and i. i am always very careful when posting, and am sure there was nothing on there, but felt it best to have it removed in order to be as cautious as a dove.

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