Isn't amazing at how we or some of us see things so clearly once we've left or were tossed out of the 'organization'? I'm the youngest of 9 children & how I use to miss my 'worldly family', because they wouldn't have anything to do with me & my family. But, it wasn't them that wouldn't 'associate' with us, IT WAS ME. I was the one with all the new 'loving' rules & regulations. Putting on the new personality cost me 15 years of being without them. I have a huge family of uncles, aunts, nieces, nephews, etc. I missed being there during my DAD's last days. Oh, what a wonderful, fine and loving man. His funeral was on the day of "Memorial". We had to leave right after his funeral service and travel about 2 hours so we could attend the Memorial at my husband's parents KH. I always hated that. But, I was loyal and stupid. I've lost a number of JW friends for the time being, but, it's my hope that one day they can be just my friends when and they will be out of the organization. My hope for them is as strong or stronger for their Christian freedom as my hope as a JW was that I could save them/others from total destruction as laid out by the 'org'.
My huge loving family has always been there for us and they still are. This is true AGAPE. Yes, and I'm proud to be have been humbled.
By not being a JW, my family and I have everything to gain. My husband and 2 children have lost his JW Dad & Mom/grandparents, but they have the invitation to call, write and/or see us if they so choose. They have chosen and it is their GREAT loss & misfortune.
Forest Gump says, "STUPID IS AS STUPID DOES".
I've decided not to be stupid anymore! (or at least I'm not going to try and practice stupidity anymore). How's that?
SUSCARRA