Jack, thanks a lot for your story! but one question raised in my head and I would like to ask you something.
You mentioned
==No, We can't just slam the door and walk away, but we CAN be awake and not be bullied around.
I was an elder too and once I realized that I was tricked by WTS, I was nit able to stand it anymore. I couldn't allow this mind control cult to rule my life anymore. And me and my wife just slam the door and walk away.. and never come back during last 8 months.. and have no regrets about it. Some our relatives accepted this and still keep relationships with us.. some don't. But just because we have no tolerance for hypocrisy, deception, and guilt-trips- as you, we left it.. We are still not DF'd, but honestly- we don't care about it.
I just want to ask you, why you still IN, since all your family realized TTAT? What now WT is giving to you?
sorry, maybe I didn't get whole idea of your story(english is not my native language), but I just curious.
Thanks in advance.