Embarrassingly I've said the same. You're exactly right, its the response when not much else can be said.
The further I get away the more I realize others who have never been inside the organization live just as clean and moral lives.
With the exception of an additional expletive or two most out are similar to those in. You have the same self-righteous types, the same arrogant types, the same gossiper types and so on.
There are benefits as to how you're raised as a JW but I'm finding many that are just as well mannered and have never seen the inside of a Kingdom Hall.