My way of thinking will probably take some time to untune from jw mindset. Once I'm completely faded hopefully i won't feel guilty about not being able stay married to such a person
Posts by Jrjw
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29Guilt trip
by Jrjw indid anyone have other jws try to guilt trip them when they were leaving or if you were making a decision which jws felt was wrong but wasn't unscriptural?
i'm getting people guilt tripping me to eventually get back with my emotionally, spiritually and mentally abusive husband who i'm separated from.
i feel sick at the thought of getting back together and putting myself through that nightmare again but i'm being told its what jehovah wants coz he doesn't want families to be apart.
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Guilt trip
by Jrjw indid anyone have other jws try to guilt trip them when they were leaving or if you were making a decision which jws felt was wrong but wasn't unscriptural?
i'm getting people guilt tripping me to eventually get back with my emotionally, spiritually and mentally abusive husband who i'm separated from.
i feel sick at the thought of getting back together and putting myself through that nightmare again but i'm being told its what jehovah wants coz he doesn't want families to be apart.
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Jrjw
Did anyone have other jws try to guilt trip them when they were leaving or if you were making a decision which jws felt was wrong but wasn't unscriptural? I'm getting people guilt tripping me to eventually get back with my emotionally, spiritually and mentally abusive husband who I'm separated from. I feel sick at the thought of getting back together and putting myself through that nightmare again but I'm being told its what Jehovah wants coz he doesn't want families to be apart. I can't imagine that a loving God would want that if someone was so unhappy that they felt life was unbearable
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Talked Higher Education with Mrs. OTWO
by OnTheWayOut inso i shared a facebook video from newsbroke with my wife.
you many agree or disagree with the points made in the video.
please, don't make this about that.
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Jrjw
Have you tried 607bce chat with her. If you type it in a normal search engine every history website I looked at said Jerusalem was destroyed in 586/7 bce. This totally throws their date of 1914 out of the window and if more people knew about it they'd be flocking out of the religion because 1914 is what one of their main teachings is based on. Jwfacts has good information on it
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Manmade rules
by Jrjw ini was talking to someone a few years ago and he said in his congregation they have a rail of white shirts prepared in the cloakroom for if a speaker doesn't have a white shirt on.
it was a rule in their hall that all brothers in the platform must wear white shirts when going talks and if the speaker won't comply when asked to change into the shirt they provide an elder in the congregation will do the talk instead.
i have never known any other halls do it so it must be a rule the elders have made up without gb input.
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Jrjw
Discreet holding of hands was ok in my hall but not putting your arms around each other
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Funniest or strangest thing to happen to you when knocking on a door
by usualusername1 inwhat is the funniest or strangest thing to happen to you or your partner when knocking on doors?.
mine was seeing a greenhouse with mannequins inside.
scary...paul.
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Jrjw
When I was about 23 me and another sister who was about 20 knocked on a door and a man answered but only popped his head around the Door coz he was naked, don't think he realised we could see him in the full length mirror at the end of the hallway. We went red and rushed through the presentation and when he shut the door were were doubled over laughing and then told the others working with us in the street and they were doubled over laughing too
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Manmade rules
by Jrjw ini was talking to someone a few years ago and he said in his congregation they have a rail of white shirts prepared in the cloakroom for if a speaker doesn't have a white shirt on.
it was a rule in their hall that all brothers in the platform must wear white shirts when going talks and if the speaker won't comply when asked to change into the shirt they provide an elder in the congregation will do the talk instead.
i have never known any other halls do it so it must be a rule the elders have made up without gb input.
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Jrjw
I was talking to someone a few years ago and he said in his congregation they have a rail of white shirts prepared in the cloakroom for if a speaker doesn't have a white shirt on. It was a rule in their hall that all brothers in the platform must wear white shirts when going talks and if the speaker won't comply when asked to change into the shirt they provide an elder in the congregation will do the talk instead. I have never known any other halls do it so it must be a rule the elders have made up without GB input. Does anyone know of other elder made rules that are unique to their hall? -
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Brotherly love in action..
by Jrjw ini'm so upset and angry at the same time.
i move in less than 2 weeks and was supposed to be getting help off "brothers" to move and one of them was driving the van and now the elders have had a meeting and told the brothers they can't help coz i'm separated from my (abusive) jw husband and with moving it puts the chances of reconciliation (of which there was zero chance) even further away.
where are these stupid rules that they come up with.
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Jrjw
I've learned that first hand. I'd never do to someone what they've so lovingly done to me and I can't imagine most non jws would do it either
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Brotherly love in action..
by Jrjw ini'm so upset and angry at the same time.
i move in less than 2 weeks and was supposed to be getting help off "brothers" to move and one of them was driving the van and now the elders have had a meeting and told the brothers they can't help coz i'm separated from my (abusive) jw husband and with moving it puts the chances of reconciliation (of which there was zero chance) even further away.
where are these stupid rules that they come up with.
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Jrjw
Wake me up - it'll take me a long time to unconditional my brain from this religion never mind moving onto another one lol. Jws go on about how much you can trust your brothers and not those in the world, to make your yes mean yes no matter how difficult a situation you're put in to carry it out and you help and love your brother and neighbour.... they speak a load of ****!!
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Brotherly love in action..
by Jrjw ini'm so upset and angry at the same time.
i move in less than 2 weeks and was supposed to be getting help off "brothers" to move and one of them was driving the van and now the elders have had a meeting and told the brothers they can't help coz i'm separated from my (abusive) jw husband and with moving it puts the chances of reconciliation (of which there was zero chance) even further away.
where are these stupid rules that they come up with.
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Jrjw
Vanderhoven7 - I've just emailed the local Baptist church up there to see if I can attend the toddler groups to make friends. Think the reverend or whoever it is would be disgusted if i told my story of how I've been treated by jws and how hurt i am
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Brotherly love in action..
by Jrjw ini'm so upset and angry at the same time.
i move in less than 2 weeks and was supposed to be getting help off "brothers" to move and one of them was driving the van and now the elders have had a meeting and told the brothers they can't help coz i'm separated from my (abusive) jw husband and with moving it puts the chances of reconciliation (of which there was zero chance) even further away.
where are these stupid rules that they come up with.
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Jrjw
A few family members and an ex witness friend who I got back in touch with just last week are trying to come up with something. My family are disgusted. My aim once I move is to make some new non jw friends and then I'm handing my letter in to disassociate myself.
The society makes out you have this great family in the "truth" who'll do anything to help each other..... Yeah right!! Even though I'm leaving society anyway im still hurt coz they're supposed to have been my friends these 12 years and they treat me like this when I'm not inactive yet or disassociated or disfellowshiped. Thoght I had real friends and tonight I've learned I don't.