I'd probley be a widow. Hubby told me that he was planning on sucide, after we left the JWs. They were making him feel very bad, and awful. What was his crimes you are asking? Earning a good living for himself and his family. He works the late shift at his job, good pay and good benifits.
Tammie
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If you were still a true JW, what would you life be like now in 2003 ??????
by run dont walk inwell, the question says it all ........... i wonder how many would become suicidal (this is not meant to funny, i do have a tendency to be on the humourous side).
what kind of job would you have ????.
would you be struggling financially ????.
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Give A Sample Of What a Watchtower Magazine Will Say 10 Years From Now
by minimus inany thoughts??
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Tammie
There will still be around 8,000 pertaking of the emblems.
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"Special Meeting" 4/27/03 ???
by robhic inmy friend who is a jw happened to mention to me last night that there is a "special meeting" today, sunday 4/27/03.
i know the jw do things in a lock-step, uniform way so i wondered if this is an organization-wide special meeting or could it just be a local one?
is a local meeting that isn't in accordance with country- or world-wide uniformity allowed?
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Tammie
There is always a special talk given shortly after Memorial. No big deal.
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In the news today
by Soledad in.
http://www.nj.com/newsflash/jersey/index.ssf?/newsflash/get_story.ssf?/cgi-free/getstory_ssf.cgi?j0172_bc_nj--pedestriansstruck&&news&newsflash-newjersey
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Tammie
People were flying everywhere. It was like watching a movie
I don't want to sound like a bad person, but when I read that part I about cracked up laughing.
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The Ultimate APOSTATE SURVEY!!! Check it out!! please respond!! ^_^
by NaruNaruChan inok, we all get them in the mail, but here's one geared towards us that i just wrote up.
feel free to add to it, as i'd love for it to go around a bit ^_^ .
copy and paste this into your response box because i just wrote it and i figure whattheheck, this could be good!!!
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Tammie
THE ULTIMATE APOSTATE SURVEY!
- What is your name? Tammie
- Where were you born? Texas
- Were u raised as a JW? Yes
- If you converted to JW later in life, why? No
- When were you baptized a JW? 17
- When were you disfellowshipped, or disassociated, and for what? I was disassocated, got tired of all the bull that was being dished out.
- Are you Married? Married
- Did you ever pioneer/aux pioneer? How long? Yes. Reg Pioneered 3 1/2 years. Aux Pioneered off and on.
- If you are Dfed or D A ed, do any active witnesses still talk to you in secret? Depends on what is going on, but generally no.
- Which teachings of the WTBTS do you disagree with the most? Almost all of it.
- Which Teachings of the WTBTS do you agree with still? None of it.
- If you could take any of it back, would u? No
- What was your worst experience at the door in the field service?
- What was your best experience in field service?
- What was the last memorial u attended? 2001
- What is one thing you wish you could say now that your eyes have been opened to an active witness? Research everything.
- Did you have to go through therapy after leaving? Yes
- how did you deprogram yourself from WT thinking? Prayer, and got rid of all the WT publications.
- Has anyone else quit the religion because you left? Yes
- What’s the craziest thing you ever heard at the kingdom hall? The rules of dating, and the putting down of the female gender.
- Have you spoken to any witnesses who came to your door after you were Dfed about what you know now? No
- What teachings do you think the society should throw OUT? The shunning issue.
- What did you do to your literature after you quit? All of it when into the trash bin.
- Have you been to an APOSTAFEST, and was it fun? No. I have not been to one.
- Did you go sex crazy when you left? No
- Did you dye your hair, get a tattoo, or pierce yourself? No
- Have you picketed a convention yet, or will you? No. But that is something my hubby would love to do, if he did then I would do it.
- Do you have any regrets? A few
- Do you think you will ever recover fully? Yes
- Would you ever go back? HELL NO!!!!!
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I have a legal question
by Tammie ini am working on a legal paper for guardianship for my children.
in the event that something happens to me and my husband i don't want any of our jw relatives to get their grubby hands on them.
any way on this paper it ask a question.
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Tammie
I am working on a legal paper for guardianship for my children. In the event that something happens to me and my husband I don't want any of our JW relatives to get their grubby hands on them. Any way on this paper it ask a question. The qestion is:
direct that the guardian of the person of our children serve (with or without) bond.
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Irritating JW relatives
by Tammie init's been a very long time since i posted anything here.
its been a very busy time around my house.
this last christmas i went in for emergancy surgary.
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Tammie
Thank you to those of you who mentioned the caller blocker. I checked with my phone company and that is part of the services that I have. And did not know it. Thank you again.
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Irritating JW relatives
by Tammie init's been a very long time since i posted anything here.
its been a very busy time around my house.
this last christmas i went in for emergancy surgary.
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Tammie
Hello everyone. It's been a very long time since I posted anything here. Its been a very busy time around my house. This last Christmas I went in for emergancy surgary. They removed 2 hurnated disk and fused my back in those locations. I am still moving some what slowly, but at least with out the pain. Living with out pain is a wonderful thing.
Then in January, my youngest sister came to live with me and my family. She walked away from the JWs. She just receintly dissocated her herself. Our JW relatives do not know where she is livng. It is driving them NUTS, big time. I think, no, I know it is because they have not got a chance to tell her off like they did when I left. (For those of you who don't know she is 23 yrs of age.) She is not ready to talk to them, she is one pissed off lady. She said she will, when the time comes.
Any way they have been hurassing a friend of her's. So she ended up calling our middle sister (there are 3 of us girls) Learned that the middle one is spreading lies. So Emma, some of you know her, called up the lying sis. and really told her off.
What is has come down to now is I am receiving phone calls from our JW relatives. (I know this because of the little tool called caller id). They don't say a word, they just hang up. Now normally this don't really get to me, but these calls come at an hour when we are sleeping. With recovering from back surgary, getting up and around for a ringing phone call that people do not say what they want is well lets just say I'm pretty close to giving them an ear full if you all know what I mean.
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Youngest df or da?
by avishai in.
what is the youngest you've known someone to be da'd or df'd, and what for?
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Tammie
The youngest I know of was 16. She was not baptized, when she had gotten pregnate, and parents kicked her out of her home. I was not around when this happened, but she and her husband works with my husband now. The baby that she was pregnate with will be going collage next year. The child has never met her sorry good for nothing JW @$$hole grandparents. Yes I also met the grandparents when I was a JW. If you all are wondering, she raised her child on her own. She only receintly married her husband last year.
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UnDisfellowshipped, hubby knows Richard Fowler
by Tammie ini tried to reply to your post, but that part was not on my computer screen.
so i replying to you here.. my husband and i knew a joe and shirly (not sure if i correctly spelled her name) fowler.
and he also knew richard and joyce fowler, of arkansas.
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Tammie
I tried to reply to your post, but that part was not on my computer screen. So I replying to you here.
My husband and I knew a Joe and Shirly (not sure if I correctly spelled her name) Fowler. And he also knew Richard and Joyce Fowler, of Arkansas. Richard and Joyce would come up to Webb City (Missouri) Congeration to visit his brother. Thats how he knows him and her.