I hear you truthseeker
I hear you Giordano
You both make valid points and while I have made attempts to connect with long time JW associates (I refuse to call them friends anymore ) a couple I had success with at the time however they never contacted me back ,I have never tried to connect with friends when we were children or close school mates that I grew up with.
And I have had regrets about that too at some degree.{ Apparently they haven`t tried to contact me either }
I guess that`s life and we all just move on to the next chapter in our lives.
Their is a section in our Sunday Newspaper titled "Desperately Seeking" that i always read ,who knows ?