I have been out over 25 years and I can relate to what you are saying ,my wife and boys left about the same time I did and they don`t seem to have a problem ? ( if it is a problem or just an interest ) that I have.
I just love to hear the latest from the Borg and how they are faring in the world and to add my 2 cents worth to get people thinking mainly lurkers and newbies .
I have been criticised for stating the obvious on some occasions but the purpose has been to get the still in person to reason it out.
I hear you brother loud and clear as I was in for 33 years.
Thanks for your contributions to this site.