With a lot of us it was a slow gradual fade and even after I left 15-20 years later I thought bugger it I need to DF the organization from my life.And that`s when I sent in my DA letter to the last congregation I attended .
And I felt free .
Handle it in a way that makes you happy and remember what our friends say here
"they have no control over you unless you give it to them "
Take care