If i didn`t welcome you before HBF I do so now . With me and my family it was not any one thing but an accumulation of many things over the years that individually at the time didn`t mean much but all adds up overtime .
To the point you just can`t ignore it anymore and the penny drops .Somethings just not right and then you start to investigate a little bit more.
And Bingo the rosy coloured glasses fall off and the scales across my eyes fell off also and I/we saw the religion for what it really is .
My wife and I were in it for 33 years and brought our two sons up in it regrettably ,but thankfully we are all out now.
Take care .