Dig,
When I was 3yrs old my father left my mom and wanted nothing to do with me. I was told that I would cry wondering were my dad was and if he would come back. Till this day I still have resentment with my dad, but he is still my dad. I guess what I'm trying to get at is as long as you don't resent either of them for there split-up, than everything should be OK.
T/Punk...