Tonus -I don't see what difference this makes.
Well this was what we began discussing here, why must there be any suffering and punishment? We've established that God is both capable of giving eternal punishment and eternal reward, and that the choice is ours. So will we choose heaven instead of suffering? God promises us no suffering or punishment when we choose him.
We may not like our choices, but we've already also established that he is superior to man, he dictates the rules.
Now thankfully, it appears that God also has given us our entire human lifetime to decide.