Posts by WeatherLover

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It's hard being bisexual and being a jw
by Sally fields in
1. social
2. relationships
i've been bi for a long time but i know it's wrong if you want to be a jw... .
WeatherLover

I'm assuming you have a lot of JW family. When you say you believe it in some ways, to what extent do you mean?
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It's hard being bisexual and being a jw
by Sally fields in
1. social
2. relationships
i've been bi for a long time but i know it's wrong if you want to be a jw... .
WeatherLover

Hi and welcome to the forum!
Maybe you could share a few more details so we could understand your situation a bit better.
There's nothing wrong with your feelings. Do you think a loving God would have any issue with you being bi? Do you want to be a JW? If so, then why?
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Kleenex Head Covering
by jwundubbed in
1. jw
2. experiences
growing up a woman in the cult was pretty bleak.

most of the adult women i knew were either depressed sad women or an embarrassment to me.

i was typical kid in that regard.
WeatherLover

Watchtower loves to make false analogies. I remember one time when headship in marriage was discussed, the speaker said that a marriage is like a ship. A ship has only one captain (the husband) but that doesn't mean the engineer (the wife) is any less important. What's ridiculous about the analogy is that a woman can captain a ship too! Also, what qualifies them to compare marriage to a ship? I think a much better analogy would be to compare marriage to a business run by two partners who each have a 50% share.
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Do you believe in god?
by freakyAL in
1. watchtower
2. beliefs
i used to be a staunch believer in god.

maybe its technology and science advancing so much thats got me doubting idk.

do you believe in god?
WeatherLover

I'm an agnostic atheist, which means I don't know that there's no God, but I don't currently believe in a god. The argument that God would have to exist because things are complex doesn't convince me because if God created complex things, then it stands to reason that he/she/it would have to be complex, meaning God would require a creator.
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2017 Annual Meeting
by obarac in
1. watchtower
2. beliefs
on saturday, october 7.. any chance to get user name and password for stream?.
WeatherLover

There's no more yearbook. And only 3 editions of the public edition of the Watchtower and the Awake! per year, starting next year.
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Question for SBF
by Fisherman in
1. watchtower
2. beliefs
slimboyfat, it appears that wts is going, gone digital.

can you show your view what is wts next move after they are completely gone from kings county and settled in warwick?

- this thread is your if you want it..
WeatherLover

I heard an interesting tidbit at the meeting last night. One of the elders and his family got a private tour of the accounts department at Warwick because they're related to someone who works there. I can't be sure that he remembered correctly, but he said that Canada, Germany, UK, and US have a surplus in donations, Brazil has just enough in donations to cover their expenses, and all of the other countries are short.
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Question for SBF
by Fisherman in
1. watchtower
2. beliefs
slimboyfat, it appears that wts is going, gone digital.

can you show your view what is wts next move after they are completely gone from kings county and settled in warwick?

- this thread is your if you want it..
WeatherLover

I think I'm with SBF in that it would be better for the religion to go through a major reform than to disappear completely (at least in the short term.) That way, we could (hopefully) avoid mass suicides and depression because witnesses could keep their resurrection hope without having to be so strict about everything. Even if they won't admit it, I think that the majority of witnesses would love it if the GB relaxed most of the rules and regulations.
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Day 1: The Night of Anger, Tears, and Pain
by Saethydd in
1. jw
2. experiences
my freedom came with a heavy cost.

i couldn't stand the dishonesty so when my sister went out of town on a trip i told my parents that i no longer wanted to be a jw.

when my sister got back and i told her she was so angry, said she really wanted to slap me, then she ran off sobbing, a few minutes later she deposited every gift i ever gave her in front of my door.. my entire family has turned against me.
WeatherLover

Wow, sorry it happened this way. I'm glad you're getting settled into your new place and I wish the best for you...my time is yet to come.
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Striking Out On My Own
by Saethydd in
1. jw
2. experiences
those of you who know my story are aware that i'm currently disfellowshipped and living with my parents.

up until now, my plan has been to be reinstated and then fade, but recently my plans have changed.

in a conversation with my mother a few days ago and she made it clear that she would not be okay with me getting reinstated with the purpose of going inactive.
WeatherLover

Congratulations on your progress! I would also like to see your letters. Since I would like to avoid being disfellowshipped if possible, I'll try to avoid presenting too many logical arguments to my parents. I do plan to write a letter to them to assure them that I do love them, to thank them for all they've done for me, and to thank them for raising me to the best of their ability.
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An update
by WeatherLover in
1. jw
2. friends
i told my parents that i was considering taking some college classes, (of course they think that i mean at the community college) and that it would be a good idea for me to take the act (which i took on the 8th of this month).

i'm trying to take baby steps so it won't be a big shock to them all at once.

and just to make something clear, i'm not planning on starting college this fall, but instead i have my sights set on next year.. p.s.
WeatherLover

@smiddy The decrease in memorial attendance was here. I talked to my aunt about college, but I didn't really talk about the religion just to be safe.
@tornintwo I certainly hope I can accomplish what I want.
@nathan natas Thanks!
@saethydd Actually I graduated from high school last year. You can definitely still find good scholarships even after taking a break from school.