Venice,
Boy, do I know what you mean! I never attended any of my proms.. I think it still hits a nerve. Yesterday, in the evening, my family and I were leaving the museum and passed a nice looking couple that were going to the prom (I guess the museum was hosting it). My eyes kinda watered...I never had those prom-jitters, never had a corsage or even wore a fancy dress. *sigh*
Mazza,
we argued
that it's all very well to play games with our lives, but now we had responsibilities to two new lives - we felt it was time to abandon the
nonesense.
What perfect words to describe my feelings. I was raised in it, never baptized.. kinda sat on the fence for years.. even when my son was a few years old I never participated in any holidays. Finally I had to take a good hard look at how I was going to raise my son. I had to realize that I could never put him through the isolation that I went through. While I know there are some jw kids that have healthy social lives, it is still hard to explain why you cannot do certain things. After going through kindergarten and seeing my 5 year old (at the time) not really know why he couldnt search for candy eggs in his class, I knew I had to rethink things.
I am hoping to give him a wonderful childhood... hopefully with some wonderful memories.
Forgetme,
"I was hoping the new system would be here before we had to worry about
this." Yeash...ya know?
Isnt this sad? It shows how many jw's dont and even cant think of the future in realistic terms. I know many family members who never put much thought into how they would handle things, only to find the situation fastly approaching. Then they reply with, 'wow, I was hoping the New System would be here by now.' I always say, 'well it isnt, so face reality in
this world!'