Posts by scratchme1010

a bit of an update, last weekend was my great grandmothers funeral, now, she was never a jw, and never was going to be, no matter how hard my mother, and grandmother tried to preach to her, she was the type of person that would kindly accept a wt or a book, but she wouldn't bother reading them.. anyways, she was a great wonderful and inspiring woman, the funeral was extremely sad, she had been a school teacher for over 35 years and a member of various clubs, so there were a lot of folks besides family that attended.. well, anyways i was there and so was my jw mother, stepfather, and grandmother, we were cordial, didn't talk about anything jw related because, it was great grandmothers funeral, not really a time to discuss how i am an evil sinner, or how i've escaped the org by avoiding df'ing, right?

wrong, as i'm sitting waiting for the service to begin, a lady shows up, now- i have known this woman for a long time, apparently she baby sat me as a small child, (like i remember?

) so she isn't someone i was ever close with, but knew of her or when she was around would say hi to and make small talk.. to give you a tid-bit on her personality though, she is one of those crazy jw's.. she claims to have been possessed by a demon, very very wacky on the prophesies, or gb talks, etc.

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scratchme1010 8 years ago

...as I am standing there in complete disbelief, this lady seriously has the guts to pull this crap at my great-grandmothers FUNERAL?..

First, my condolences. Seems like you will be missing your grandma. Maybe you have some of her in you. Second, I'm so sorry that your mourning got so disgustingly interrupted by all that nonsense. Feel proud, though, that you handled yourself with grace.

Many JWs truly believe that preaching to people in mourning is supposed to make them think that they can see the person they are mourning again in their stupid "paradise on Earth". I consider what they do at funerals to be the most disgusting, truly irresponsible, tasteless, classless action.

I'm so sorry you went through that. Again, my condolences.

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No Longer a JW Expert But Starting to Figure Out Life

by AllTimeJeff in

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8 years ago

consider this an update for those that remember me here.... when i left in 2006, it started a 10 year journey into a new phase.

no more "safety".

some people want to be their own person.

8 years ago

scratchme1010 8 years ago

...I don't have a whole lot to offer on what the current teachings are from the deluded idiots running the place. But I do have some years of healing and growing. I will try to share if it seems appropriate. Peace and love to you all.

I find this part of your post precious. Thank you for sharing and caring for the ones still in.

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pre historic man..

by zeb in

8 years ago

a poster had a line about early man before humans... i recall a doco sorry cant remember details where neanderthal graves were found in spain.

these graves had been laid down with artefacts' and care by the way the deceased were positioned.

now the finders took material and from the graves and come up with dna.

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scratchme1010 8 years ago

How interesting.

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Is your "diet" a balanced one??

by stuckinarut2 in

8 years ago

an illustration came to mind.

we know that the society often talks about the need to "eat healthy spiritual food".

but imagine that we are speaking of literal food.

8 years ago

scratchme1010 8 years ago

What a sad situation!

It's harder for born-ins like me and others that were raised being told that that's all the food there is in the world.

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Why is this blind allegiance to the anointed ones?

by anointed1 in

8 years ago

even when they know that certain things are not right with the organization the flocks are blindly following their leaders viewing them as the future “kings and priests” (originally a sumerian concept).. greed for a “land of milk and honey” (either in this life or the next) is at the root of their allegiance.

interestingly, greed is something the flocks are warned against: ‘be on your guard against all kinds of greed which is idolatry.’ (luke 12:15; colossians 3:5).

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scratchme1010 8 years ago

Even when they know that certain things are not right with the organization the flocks are blindly following their leaders viewing them as the future “kings and priests” (originally a Sumerian concept).

Again, people keep looking at the face value of what the JWs say. For some bizarre reason, people still fail (refuse?) to address what their allegiance is about, which is nothing related to any of the crap that the WT teaches, but about what it gives them, what makes them feel, what's in it for them.

It's not allegiance to anyone, not even the GB; it's allegiance to what they get from being a JW. Those things typically are:

Sense of certainty about the future
Answers to questions
A sense of community/belonging
A place where they can make healthy life decisions
Structure for them and their families
An explanation for everything

That's what they are loyal too. The GB can tell them that Jesus reincarnated in a two-headed cow in Arkansas and they will believe it for as long as it keeps giving them what they feel fulfills them.

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If the Org. confessed they were not God's org. Would you still be there and was that the main reason you stayed

by tor1500 in

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8 years ago

i know you know who i am by now...the one that forgets to use paragraphs...anyway, all over all the jw sites (not jw.org).

it's been asked if you knew this or that why did you stay...it's been discussed how no matter what you hit the friends with, failed dated, new lights, pedophiles, etc, yet they stay and you can't reason with them....so what i've come up with is that most stay because they feel it's god's org.

and they were chosen in place of the jews.

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scratchme1010 8 years ago

If the Org. confessed they were not God's org. Would you still be there and was that the main reason you stayed

That's never going to happen so I think speculating about some If situation that is not plausible is futile.

My thoughts are that, again, people keep talking about showing JWs "the light" about what the WT teaches, and fail to address the real reasons why people remain JWs. It has nothing to do with what they teach; it about what the WT gives them that makes them feel comfortable.

Address their feelings instead of nonsensical what-ifs, and you will obtain better results in making your point.

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