Do you think that some people simply can't cope with being outside the JWs?
Bienvenido al foro.
Not only I agree with you 100%, but professionals in the matter who have done research and dedicate their careers to study groups like the WT also agree.
I'm personally friends with people who help people who have lost loved ones to cults. Before intervening with the person, they make an entire assessment of their family, looking for the environment in which the person will come back to if he/she leaves the cult. Sometimes their recommendation has been that they are better off in the cult for several reasons:
- The family environment is that horrible
- They don't have a better place to come to
- They are not really in a cult; the family just want to control the person
- The person's mental health issues are too severe and there's no support for the person outside
- The cult is actually taking care of important aspects of the person't life, that otherwise he/she could not get
- The person doesn't have the life skills necessary to deal with life
There are many reasons why some people are better off being part of an organization that gives them structure that otherwise they wouldn't get (or they perceive that they wouldn't get).
I am very happy that I'm not one of those people.