Posts by scratchme1010

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Loving a JW

by stevilla in

here’s a little back story.

i met this jw girl 4 months ago online and found out she was a jw 2 months later after confessing my liking for her.

we had a long conversation about it with her explaining what exactly a jw is and the rules and what not.

scratchme1010

Giving her space. Besides space, is there anything else I could do or should do or should have done differently? We fell for each other and I don’t want to lose her when I know deep in her heart that she wants to leave the cult. I don’t know what to do.

Hello, and welcome to the forum.

The very first thing that came to my mind is never neglect universal Internet socialization precautions, no matter who you meet. 2 months is still a very short time to expect drastic decisions to be made from either of you.

As for her leaving, it is on her, and it's only her decision. I was in the process of leaving myself when I met my now ex. He was of great support (support I didn't know I needed). So I'd suggest to go at her pace, don't pressure her and let things happen. Meanwhile, get to know her better.

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Memorial.. To go or not to go

by Emily1987 in

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friends

so, as some of you will know myself and my husband are in the process of fading.

haven't been to a meeting since beginning of 2017. .

we weren't planning on going to the memorial, but last week my mother broke down and said that we have to go to the memorial even if it's the only meeting i go to this year.

scratchme1010

Is it likely that by showing our faces at the memorial, we would be back a square one, with the elders chasing after us, asking us if we want a study?

I don;t think that it's that cut and dry. You don't go back to square one. Also, maybe it's time to start practicing setting boundaries. If you go, you can go and specifically tell your mum that she's the reason why you're going, and nothing more. Or you can say nothing, and go back to your own way of doing things.

You don't have to explain yourself to them. You can go to get your mum off your chest and continue with what you are doing.

Besides, I'm not sure that they have the capacity to follow up on every person if they are shrinking in numbers.

It'll be interesting to know what happens. Pleas post what you decided to do and how it pans out.

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I was invited to address The Presbyterians at their church

by Giordano in

so i was asked to give a presentation at the oxford forum which is sponsored by a local presbyterian church.

it's a very old church founded in 1758. it's way out in a rural area and if your interested here is their web site.. for a quick look at a beautiful setting: http://www.oxfordchurchlex.org/ yes this image is eye candy but up close the architectural detailing is pretty impressive............ there is no way you are going to confuse this church with a jehovah's witness soon to be closed kingdom hall.. the pastor told me that they would have 15 to 20 people attending my presentation about the jw life and beliefs.

it would start at 10am and end at 10:50. he would open the meeting with a brief prayer and welcome.

scratchme1010

Great job! I think that the event is good for both them and you.

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Father of Pulse gunman was FBI informant...

by freemindfade in

i am not really sure what to make of all this yet, its just coming out so who knows what is real and fake yet, but if its true it seems the news coming out about seddique mateen & the fbi is yet another bureua failure.

as an informant for years mateen actually helped to clear his terrorist son of any scrutiny by the fbi, then he killed 49 and wounded dozens of others.

this kind of crap is actually giving credibility to the wearers of tin foil hats .

scratchme1010

As an informant for years Mateen actually helped to clear his terrorist son of any scrutiny by the FBI, then he killed 49 and wounded dozens of others.

None of that matters to me. First, the gunman is not his father; they are two different people. Second, none of that is going to bring the killed back. That piece of information changes nothing, if you ask me.

I'm not sure what kind of influence if any, his father had.

I think about my own father and what different lives and decisions we have made, even though we share DNA. Sometimes children completely develop completely different lives regardless of how much parents want to influence them in a given direction.

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JW.ORG logo trademark is now protected in up to 100 countries

by Corney in

i. as many here know, four or five years ago watch tower society of pennsylvania tried to register jw.org and jw library trademarks in us, but uspto refused registration due to likelihood of confusion with jw player trademark.

" and "watch tower library" ones):.

jw library - registered on aug. 25, 2015;.

scratchme1010

Nothing too exotic about this. Companies do and protect their trademarks. So?

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If the Disfelowshupp /Shunning araingment is so loveing

by poopie in

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friends

why out of 52 convention outlines it's not mentioned 1 time?.

scratchme1010

You are right, it's not a loving thing.

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Special talk: "who is Jesus Christ?!

by nowwhat? in

apparently he no longer is our savior and the "way and the truth and the life" or our mediator between god and man .

the governing body took over that role.

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scratchme1010

Does't surprise me. Every cult leader (or leadership) typically evolve from messenger of the deity, to designated exclusive leader from the deity, to sole representative of the deity, to being the deity.

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Jehovah’s Witnesses threaten Irish blogger with damages (avoidjw.org)

by Not_Culty in

jason wynne: threatened with legal action by the jehovah’s witnesses .

sect claims publication of its secret policy documents is a copyright violation; website contents also include documents concerning child sex abuse allegations.

https://www.businesspost.ie/news/jehovahs-witnesses-granted-subpoena-irish-blogger-412638.

scratchme1010

scratchme1010, I think you're going too far when you say that Jason deserves to be sued if he violated the copyright law.

Absolutely not. If he is violating the law, he's holding the exact position, and having the exact attitude and posture than the WT, which is that the laws don't apply to them because what they are doing is bigger. He is to be hold up to the same standards that everybody else.

It's bullshit for the WT to say and act according to that, it is bullshit for him to do the same.

Just because it's something you like hearing or reading, or just because it's something that can be detrimental to the WT, doesn't make it LEGAL, doesn't make it RIGHT, doesn't even make it morally right. And yes, if he's violating the law knowing that he is, he deserves to get sued.

Don't like it? Form your own country with your own laws, or pay the guy for his lawyer.

Liking what he's doing doesn't make it LEGAL.

(And on and on and on you go with hypotheticals. People here love that shit!)

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God! No one really cares!!!!

by JaniceA in

there are exposes right and left.

australia, canada , uk, usa.

news reports, court cases.

scratchme1010

They dont care. Their human consciences have been mutated and perverted. They will give up their lives happily to serve the Borg.

So sorry that you seem so frustrated. I'm not sure that what you see is the whole picture, though. First, some do care. Second, opening their eyes and restoring their critical minds is a process for some people. However, yes, some people don't care.

Some people love their little JW happy bubble and see nothing else but what makes them comfy and gives them a sense of security. No easy answers, no quick fixes.

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Jehovah’s Witnesses threaten Irish blogger with damages (avoidjw.org)

by Not_Culty in

jason wynne: threatened with legal action by the jehovah’s witnesses .

sect claims publication of its secret policy documents is a copyright violation; website contents also include documents concerning child sex abuse allegations.

https://www.businesspost.ie/news/jehovahs-witnesses-granted-subpoena-irish-blogger-412638.

scratchme1010

If he's violating copyright law, the guy deserves to get sued, regardless of how good or bad of strategy that is for the WT. Neither the WT nor the guy are above the law.