indeed listen to comatose and if you have to meet with them do like i did deny deny deny give the textbook answer so they can see that you are still brain washed leave the meeting make plans to move from your mom's house and never set foot in a hall again.My father turned me in to a jc with the circuit overseer and i like the 17 year old dummy i was i confessed got public reproofed.I hoped that meant i could't go out in field service iiiinnnnnnn wrong i could do everything except carry the mic an comment so i stopped going in field service got kicked out returned home in a year they ask to meet with me again and i denied everything denyed the sex,drugs....etc i thought if they had god's spirit then i shouldn't have to say a thing they should already know.These guys suck man play by the rules dont cop to anything try to avoid them as long as possible.I'm in the process of exposing TTAT to my cousin who is studying i told her a few things on the phone thought i was getting through to her, then she said well email me the info iiiiiiinnnnnngggg big no you will not have a record of me sending you apostate info,next time becareful how you explain TTAT to people whilst you are in your mom's house and you dont want to be dfed,leave no records drop hints let them do the leg work that's how im going to proceed with my cousin.Keep your head up i'm hoping for the best for you an your situtation.
20yearfader
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A mistake in fading 4 months ago is coming back to haunt me... HELP!!
by ILoveTTATT inso today, two elders from a congregation i was in two years ago came by the house.
they said they wanted to talk to me about things that they have heard, and that they want to talk to me very quickly, as soon as possible.
perhaps before this week ends.. i don't know what to do!!
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Well it is time for me to say GOODBYE!!!
by mouthy init has been nice talking with you.but i seem to upset a few because of my faith.. so have a great christmas.... & be good, i wont be here to send you to your rooms .
i have grown close to many of you.... if i have ever said anything to hurt you sorry!!!!.
when i kick the bucket i am sure "mary" who ssometimes post will let you know.. mouthy grace gough.
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20yearfader
whoo i'm glad mouthy that you have had a change of heart i enjoy your post i was about to say first the beatles break up and now this....there's nothing to believe in anymore
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If the society started posting dfs and dAs on it's website
by 20yearfader ini remember as a kid always hearing my mother saying "i wish the society would announce dfs and das to all the congs in the circuit" if the wt would ever do this like post all the dfs and das and inactive witnesses on there website how would this effect you?would it open them up to some sort of legal action?.
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i remember as a kid always hearing my mother saying "I wish the society would announce dfs and dAs to all the congs in the circuit" If the wt would ever do this like post all the dfs and dAs and inactive witnesses on there website how would this effect you?would it open them up to some sort of legal action?
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my disassociation letter
by unstopableravens indear elders at%^** congregation, november 1, 2013. .
as you know ive been a member of your congregation for many years.
throughout the last several years i have had the opportunity to get to know many of you personally and i can truly say i have love for all of you.
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20yearfader
way to go unstoppable now lets hope for a ravens win on sunday
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Why Does this super smart Bible God not perform miracles
by confusedandalone inlet's be serious - if you really want people to have faith and to be able to now absolute truth why not perform miracles.
why not make the bible a blank book and when you open it, it addresses you personally in writing of course.
for instance it says, "hey confusedandalone this is what i need you to do.
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20yearfader
you sound the same way i use to think when i was in the org.I use to always say why doesnt god just speak to the whole world that way it would remove all doubt as to weather he is real or not.I always got the standard you must not put god to the test answer,but look at it this way if he spoke to the world that would greatly reduce the ones that would be in line for destruction doing the big A.At this point i no longer care if god exist or not it's obvious he doesn't care about us.No way a heavenly parent and that's the best example i have would allow so much suffering and misery just to prove someone wrong,and why did we get holding the bag we didnt question his authority,that's something i could never wrap my mind around as a jw it makes little or no sense,just like using men to write your word.
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Goodbye JWD/JWN (my last post)
by slimboyfat inafter some considerable thought i have decided that i will no longer post on this forum because i want to return to jehovah.
thank you for all the kindness and many interesting discussions over the years.
i wish you all well in the future and the decisions you make.
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you can go back but you will never be happy,you know too much hell at the age of 7 i knew too much or rather had questions that they couldn't answer.Going back is like a person making the decision to switch off their brain in order to follow the herd again,return to that for me NEVER! but if it works for you then have fun
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Gay MS??
by andysmiles inabout me, i am being raised in a jw family.
all of my family expect for one aunt, who had left but not disfellowedshiped thankly, are in jw.
my father is an elder and so is my grandfather.
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20yearfader
hey andy and welcome.
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Why were we so fortunate to escape clutches of the WT?
by jam inwhen i came out i knew of very few ex-jw's.
for years i. question my decision.
was i being selfish, couldn't cut the.
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20yearfader
i was always curious not accepting the crap that came from brooklyn no man can tell me who and who not to speak too what are we 5 years old.i use to watch a lot of national geo when i was a kid an they would find objects that were 10 k years old and i would always say that can't be right man has only been here for 6k years plus i hated hated field service.
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I'm thinking about going back
by Corboy101 ini have been out for 22 years.i was raised as a jehovahs witness.
i was baptized in 1986 but soon after left the religion.
theres a whole lot to the reasons why i left, but i left.
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i could never go back,as a born in the only thing drilled into my head was how the generation of 1914 wouldn't pass....now they have and even as a mind controled jw i always had serious questions that couldn't be answered.I look at the members in my family that are jws,they are the older ones i'm looking forward to this cult dying out of my family it has caused so much harm and pain and if you look at the ones in the hall compared to the rest of my family they appear odd compared to the rest of the family.
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I missed a lot of TV over the last 30 years
by sosoconfused insince i have stopped attending meetings i have realized that there are alot of good t.v.
shows that i have missed as well as channels that i would not watch because they would no doubt be in opposition to the scriptures(har har).. .
i have been watching the history channel and the discovery channel so much over the last few months that it is amazing.
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20yearfader
i reccomend my all time favorite Dr.who on the bbc america and grim on nbc