Hi Intro,
Different approaches work for different people.
I personally don't see speaking the truth about that 'trooth' as taking advantage of anyone.I will reiterate using the case you mentioned in your initial post,that chats and boards are not a good place for someone needing to work on severe recovery issues.
This is a place with many individuals,eclectically minded,not a homogenous group.It doesn't pretend to be strictly a support group either.
Seems to me you expect places like this to be run on the support group paradigm. That's not what it's all about.
It's unfortunate but the facts about the wts,the terrible things it has caused,is not a pretty and sensitive topic.
Have you been involved with recovery groups? I have,I also co-faciltated some. Major difference from forums and chat rooms. When people are hurting,professional intervention is obviously needed,where the structure and dynamics are maintained for sensitivity and emotional safety. And that ties in with your time and place comment. These places are often not the time or place. people need to know that recovery options are out there,that they usuually wont be found on a cyber board.(I say usually because some have found it efficacious,but I've observed from their comments that these ones have already made the time and committment FIRST,to the appropriate avenues of recovery)
Pushing information is what these boards ARE all about.Info is shared and debated.I think yyou're really out there in left field with your personal expectations and standards on how people should communicate here,Tina
Ps WHo studied and developed this paradigm for 'shattered faith syndrome" can you direct to empirical research on this 'syndrome"?
Carl Sagan on balancing openness to new ideas with skeptical scrutiny...."if you are open to the point of gullibility and have not an ounce of skeptical sense,you cannot distinguish useful ideas from worthless ones."