Yes, that is my determination. I am going to love my family no matter what! It is the right thing to do. It is just frustrating to see them stuck in a doomsday movement and in my case having to play along with these charlatans
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My daughter has been officially dfd, unfortunately...
by suavojr inunfortunately she still does not know ttatt... the good thing is that my wife (her mom) is not shunning her!.
i gave my daughter love & comfort and told her that nobody is ever going to divide us, i might not be happy with all of her choices and decisions but i just want her to be happy.
my family is still asleep and still thinks this is the truthtm and my wife wants her to come back.
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My daughter has been officially dfd, unfortunately...
by suavojr inunfortunately she still does not know ttatt... the good thing is that my wife (her mom) is not shunning her!.
i gave my daughter love & comfort and told her that nobody is ever going to divide us, i might not be happy with all of her choices and decisions but i just want her to be happy.
my family is still asleep and still thinks this is the truthtm and my wife wants her to come back.
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suavojr
Reading CoC worked for me, but I know it takes years before you get the courage to investigate your personal doubts. I just get mad that my wife won't shun but will not hear anything against the Borg!
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My daughter has been officially dfd, unfortunately...
by suavojr inunfortunately she still does not know ttatt... the good thing is that my wife (her mom) is not shunning her!.
i gave my daughter love & comfort and told her that nobody is ever going to divide us, i might not be happy with all of her choices and decisions but i just want her to be happy.
my family is still asleep and still thinks this is the truthtm and my wife wants her to come back.
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Unfortunately she still does not know TTATT... the good thing is that my wife (her mom) IS NOT SHUNNING HER!
I gave my daughter love & comfort and told her that nobody is ever going to divide us, I might not be happy with all of her choices and decisions but I just want her to be happy. My family is still asleep and still thinks this is The Truth™ and my wife wants her to come back. I think this is a great opportunity for me to show her the damage that shunning causes.
Any strategies as to how I can show her the light version of TTATT?
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Somewhat embarrassing confession - my step-MOTHER and her MOTHER are PROSTITUTES who love badmouthing other prostitutes (in print).
by Fernando ini was born in my step-mother's home and lived there for more than 40 years before walking out mid-2009 never to return.. because i have rejected her and her mother, they now falsely accuses me of also being a prostitute.. i have made great strides in improving my mental health after living with these seriously twisted and demented women for so long.. this is some of what they have written:.
*** w80 5/15 p. 22 par.
2 the calamity facing all religionists of the world ***.
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suavojr
Lol great post! Sad to say my mom is also a crazy prostitute...
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OMG Have you seen this?? This site is sooo hysterical. It reminds me of The Onion, but for exJW's
by noni1974 inhttp://jehovahstrumpet.com.
i read the cat baptisim article and i doubled over laughing.
one time when i was a kid i asked why my kitty couldn't go to the kh with us and my mom told me that animals were perfect and didn't need to go to the kh.. .
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suavojr
great site! Thanks
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COBE's Mom Dies And "Eulogy" Was All About Praising Her And It Went For Over An Hour!
by minimus ini heard it was unlike anything ever heard in a local congregation.
they even got a bethelite to come sing the woman's praises..
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suavojr
They like to take Ecclesiastes 7:1 to a new level and promote the WT way of living as the only satisfying method. How depressing!
"A good name is better than precious oil; and the day of death, than the day of one's birth."
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My thoughts on Belief.
by braincleaned init would be a grave mistake to imagine we can change the convictions of anyone even thru the most persuasive arguments we can muster.
fact is, we are wired to deal with our cognitive dissonance by catering to it thru confirmation bias.. anything that contradicts our cherished beliefs will be rationalized against, or simply categorized as untrue.
if any logical fallacy is detected on either side it will be used as if a bad argument is automatically proof of a false one (which is a fallacy in itself, amusingly called the "fallacy fallacy").. either way, nobody has changed cherished beliefs on a presumingly lost argument.. but all the rhetoric is not fruitless.
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suavojr
This is so true braincleaned, once we unlock the power of our mind we cannot go back to a complacent state of denial.
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Posting from iPhone - thanks Simon!
by Comatose ini just saw that now i am allowed to post from iphone.
i'm guessing this must be one of the update she did simon.
so thank you!.
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suavojr
Yes! Thank you very much
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share your reaction after reading CoC and ISoCF
by suavojr inafter reading coc and isocf i cried, i was in shock, disillusioned, angry, and afraid... anyone wants to share their experience?.
i would like to see what you think about these questions when compared with your account.. why people from different backgrounds feel similar reactions?
(cannot be a conpiracy).
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suavojr
All humans make mistakes, I am personally fine with sincere human error, however when you cover over those mistakes with blatant dishonesty, you reap the wrath of heartbroken individuals.
wow emery, very well said!
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Need help getting book In Search of Christian Freedom IN SPANISH
by suavojr ini have searched in vain wanting to buy or get a pdf of ray's book in search of christian freedom in spanish.
does anyone know where i can buy this book in spanish, or provide me at least with a pdf?.
suavojr.
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suavojr
I thought no one was running commentary press?