Bump - this thread was just mentioned in another more recent thread, and I feel all lurkers, faders, especially those who are parents need to read this beautiful heartfelt story.
Thankyou Balsam, a thousand times for sharing your story. It has given me courage in my convictions.
i recently wrote a letter to my local childrens hospital revoking my previous stand on blood transfusions, and also updated my own health directive. I will not allow my children to die, or leave them motherless if it is preventable. It has caused tension with my husband to make this stand, but it is worth it if it could save their lives or mine one day.
Telling of your loss, WILL save other people from the pain you and your family have suffered.
Love, Sky (((())))