Welcome to the real 'organization'.
I've been in this situation and have seen hundreds of others experience it by being 'put in their place'. I've seen too many good brothers ( and sisters too!) with great ideas that are told NO...
The WTBTS and it's branches are structured from the top down. Rank and position exist on every level. The 'pecking order' is very real.
'Waiting on Jehovah' to correct wrongs in the congregation only leads to pain and misery. Just like you focus on in your experience - ProfCNJ - , it's easy to blame a rotten, controlling person in the congregation. However, you (just like I used to do) miss the point: the real problem is the organizational policies and doctrines that run the WT machine.
This religion will never be improved or reformed from within.
ginger