Apologies for resurrecting an old thread, but I wanted to know if this question had been covered before and this thread I found is exactly what I was going to ask.
I had an experience at the weekend related to this and it's been playing on my mind all week.
I was away down in Manchester meeting some people about some work I was doing for them. JW stuff was the last thing on my mind - one of the reasons I enjoy travelling away is because I still live near where I grew up as a JW, so there's a lot of memories around.
I was in conversation with the people I met down in Manchester, and totally out of the blue they mentioned they had someone in the previous day who "used to be a JW" who was brought up in Australia. They then went on to explain the conversation they had with him all about what JW's can't do, while I stayed quiet. Incidentally they were correct about JW's views with everything they said - blood transfusions, homosexuality etc.
It wasn't a long conversation, but I did feel that I had the opportunity to speak up and I didn't. I'm not the sort of person to volunteer personal information to people I've just met, especially JW stuff. I didn't think it bothered me at first, but over the past few days it's really played on my mind almost to the point where I'm physically hurting about it inside. In a way I'm not sure what it is that bothers me - is it because I didn't speak up so I feel like a coward, or was it the weird coincidence of the JW subject coming up when I least expeceted it?
I don't have much experience speaking to non-JW's about being an ex-JW, so I'm not sure how people react to that kind of thing, so it was interesting to read this thread.
Incidentally, I would really like to meet the ex-JW guy who was visiting Manchester the previous day, last Friday. Apparently he lives in London, but originally from Australia where he grew up as a JW. Please do get in touch if you are on here. I was really amazed that a person would be so open like he was with a bunch of strangers.